Want 1 secret to surviving infidelity?
Okay. Then realize this simple truth – it’s simple (but not easy to feel day to day):
There is hope.
When we find out our wife has betrayed us it’s easy to think – and to get the FEELING – that the future might be hopeless.
Many guys lose hope – or start believing the only way they’ll feel better is if their wife stops cheating or doesn’t leave them. (2 things that are out of your control).
This is very common.
The reason is because when we get cheated on our heart sorta freaks out, and our body follows suit – releasing a tidal wave of powerful hormones (adrenaline, cortisol) that keep us from thinking straight, get us feeling desperate, insecure… and yes, hopeless at times.
Like much of the thinking that goes on after we’re betrayed… it’s best to view it as complete bullshit.
It’s not rational thought. It’s the hormones doing the thinking for us. Making us much more emotional than we normally are.
If you’re feeling or thinking any of this now, don’t beat yourself up about it – most guys go through this after getting cheated on.
The important thing to realize – even if you can’t feel it right now – is that there IS hope… and things WILL get better. No matter what happens. Whether she leaves, or you find out she cheats again. I’m not telling you to accept those things… but whatever happens you will be okay.
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